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Text back only when he does – Ties right into the above, you need to let him take the lead here. You need to set the stage for the type of relationship you would like to have with him later. If you are the one constantly texting him and showing need, this will continue into whatever relationship you create with him. (This means you will be the one to ask him out, he won’t do it ever) Make sure you ONLY text when he does and it wouldn’t hurt to forget to sms back every once in a while. Never chase a guy over text – Probably the biggest mistake ladies make not only with texting guys, and also in creating relationships with them. Many women kick and fight against this concept but have you honestly ever had this work out? Have you ever been assertive with a guy and had him reciprocate your interest? The reason why is because this is the MALE role not the female. If you are the one chasing him over text or in person he sits back and lets you do all the work, then he does his best to sleep with you and disappears shortly after. Don’t do this, don’t chase him over text or any other medium. In my book TextAppeal, I will teach you a few strategies to encourage him to chase you, it really isn’t that hard since men will naturally do this if you encourage it in the right way. (If you don’t like this advice take a second to really think about it, did it ever really work to chase him, ever??)

The rules have changed in the dating arena, thanks to smart phones and evolving technology! Hint: just because you can break up via text doesn’t mean you should!

DON’T just send a one-word reply . “Hi.” “K.” “Cool.” Even if you don’t think your message warrants an extra few words, add them. A brief response is the “I’m fine” of a text convo. Translation: He’ll think you’re pissed. (Or worse, that you’re bitchy.)


Dating and texting rules

Dating and texting rules